#121 | Why the Cool Girl Always Finishes Last

About This Episode

This week I thought it would be interesting to do a deep dive into the ‘Cool Girl’ archetype because it’s so prevalent in our culture. Most of us can relate to either being her, knowing her, or dating her.

Listen in to learn about what drives the cool girl, how she relates to men, where her biggest pain point is, why the ‘nice guy’ is her opposite-sex mirror, and much more.

The first part of the video is all about the cool girl and her motives, while the second part of the video is an analysis of two films that help us paint the picture of distinction between the ‘cool girl’ and the ‘feminine woman.’ (My Best Friend's Wedding and The Fighter).

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 — Intro

00:38 — The cool girl always loses  

02:24 — The gold in the shadow  

04:50 — She always seeks outside herself  

07:17 — The big mistake she makes  

09:45 — Men pick up on the low self esteem  

12:11 — Jungian frameworks  

14:38 — My Best Friend’s Wedding Analysis 

17:04 — Cool Girl Versus Feminine Woman 

19:30 — Feminine Vulnerability is strength  

21:57 — Female Psychology

24:23 — The Fighter Analysis  

26:50 — True Feminine Leadership  

28:37 — Outro
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