More About How I work With Men:

What do I do?

Gentlemen, I help awaken all the best parts about you that have been hiding and as a result causing you tension and dissatisfaction in your life.

What’s Going on Beneath the Surface?

Are you successful? Strong? Sociable? Have you done everything right in life? You have the degree, the job, the hobbies, the friends? By every measure of society, you have found success but there’s still something wrong…

Maybe you get angry and lose your temper easily? Maybe you drink more than you know you should?

Maybe you wonder why the women that you want don’t notice you? If you’re in a relationship, maybe you feel misunderstood by your woman and find yourself seeking distance instead of closeness?

Do you ask yourself what’s the point of all of this? Do you wonder when you’ll finally be appreciated by the people around you? Do you say everything is fine, meanwhile you wonder whether you are good enough? Whether this is all there is?

If you said yes to any of the above then you most likely have a wounding from childhood that needs attention.

Usually what happened was dad did not provide you with everything you needed emotionally as a child (even if he was there physically and provided financially). When that happens a boy becomes enmeshed with his mother because he looks to her for validation since dad isn’t providing it. While he’s doing that, she looks to her son to fulfill her needs because her masculine counterpart is unavailable to her too. This results in an incorrect relationship between mother and son, one that is missing the foundational unconditional love and connection he needs.

Unconditional love from the opposite sex parent is what helps children develop their self worth. Pair that with the lack of confidence he feels due to dad’s absence (physical or emotional or both) and there you have it - A life spent trying to prove your worth in a myriad of ways from overthinking and overworking to seeking validation from women or getting lost in addictions.

Guess what? It’s not your fault. But it is your responsibility - that’s where I come in.

How do I help you?

For the first time in your life, I provide you with a container of support, care, and confidentiality while helping you release the pain, tension, and discomfort that has been blocking you from experiencing a truly satisfying and fulfilling life.

From being the man you were always meant to be. Grounded, respected, calm, confident, and completely at peace with who you are and what you offer this world. Resulting in complete admiration, appreciation, and support from the woman in your life and your family. (for my single clients, this is exactly what you will attract into your life by doing this work).

Ready to recreate your life from the inside out? My unique coaching style includes somatic techniques and reparenting processes that have been proven to awaken all the best parts about you that have been hiding.

It’s a bold journey and not for the faint of heart but if you are ready, schedule a complementary discovery call.

Say yes to the peace and power you desire. The little boy in you deserves it and it’s my honor to support you both.

-Anya Shakh