#133 | Why Feminist Studies Don’t Belong in Academia

About This Episode

In this guest episode I sit down with Professor Marc J. Defant, Professor of Geology and Geochemistry whose work spans the physical sciences and evolutionary psychology.

Recently he published a peer-reviewed paper in Sexuality & Culture titled “Evolutionary Psychology and the Crisis of Empirical Rigor in Feminist Studies” - https://rdcu.be/eOkjZ

The paper argues that much of modern feminist scholarship is ideology and not grounded in any truth. Professor Defant and I discuss how social constructivism has created confusion about relationships, work, masculinity, and femininity. We explore human evolution, parental investment theory, cross-cultural studies of mate selection preferences, and much more.

Listen in to learn how feminism might have broken an old template but has gone too far in denying human nature, why suppressing sex differences actually clarifies them more, the real roots of the pay gap, and what’s really going on between men and women today.

Get in touch with Professor Marc J. Defant here: https://www.marcdefant.com/about/

-Watch his TED talk here: https://youtu.be/_nCOhrYV7eg?si=SmxngOyM1fTCaO1aTIMESTAMPS:

TIMESTAMPS:

00:00 — Intro & Attraction Differences

01:00 — Introducing Professor Marc J. Defant 

01:56 — Background in Evolutionary Psychology 

03:11 — Feminist Critiques of Biology 

04:00 — Social Constructivism vs. Instincts 

06:48 — Motherhood & Changing Priorities 

08:44 — How Fatherhood Changes Men 

10:11 — Human Evolution & Brain Size 

11:51 — Male Parental Investment 

14:25 — Cross-Cultural Mate Preferences 

14:56 — Why Men Value Youth & Beauty 

16:26 — Modern Women Providing Resources 

18:51 — The APA on Toxic Masculinity 

20:06 — High-Earning Women & Divorce 

21:33 — The Crisis in Feminist Studies 

23:44 — Fat Studies & Health at Every Size 

25:52 — Body Positivity & Reproductive Suppression 

28:16 — Unrealistic Beauty Standards 

29:32 — Societal Pressures on Young Men 

31:24 — Objectification vs. Natural Attraction 

32:20 — The Importance of Inner Beauty 

33:53 — Women's Long-Term Mate Preferences 

35:28 — Hetero-Pessimism & Dating Apathy 

36:21 — Female Entitlement & Independence 

37:04 — The Patriarchy & The Pay Gap 

38:35 — Flexibility & Occupational Choices 

40:01 — Women Dominating Modern Fields 

42:00 — Rethinking Societal Expectations 

44:36 — Male Competition & Workplace Dynamics 

46:08 — Did Early Feminism Misunderstand Needs? 

47:00 — The Alternative Path of Early Feminism 

49:15 — The Biological Reality of the Sexes 

51:45 — Consequences of Blank Slate Theory 

54:10 — Equal Opportunity vs. Equal Outcomes 

56:30 — How Men & Women Communicate Differently 

59:00 — The Importance of Complementary Roles 

01:01:20 — Fixing the Modern Dating Market 

01:03:45 — Advice for Young Men Today 

01:06:15 — Navigating Career vs. Motherhood 

01:08:45 — Building a Meaningful Partnership 

01:12:46 — Discussing Marriage Expectations Early
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