#127 | 3 Myths and Truths I’ve Learned About Men
About This Episode
One thing that gets missed often in discussions about men and women is how little men around the world experience non-sexual touch and affection. This goes hand in hand with the lack of care our culture exhibits towards men.
Listen in to learn about three myths and truths reflecting men, the data behind touch, how testosterone and attachment work together, the origin of the word wife, and much more.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 — Intro: The Crisis of Non-Sexual Touch
00:44 — Welcome Back & "Year of the Horse"
01:43 — True North Mastermind Announcement
05:09 — The Touch Deficit in Boys
06:25 — Testosterone & Delayed Attachment
07:56 — The "Man Up" Narrative
09:40 — Myth: Men Just Want Sex
11:00 — The Sterilization of Affection in Society
13:00 — Social Differences: Slumber Parties vs. "Go Play"
14:32 — The Shift at Age Six: Joining the "Men's Tribe"
15:54 — When Sex Becomes the Only Outlet for Touch
16:51 — Myth: Men Lack Emotional Expression
17:48 — The Fear of Overwhelming Emotion
19:40 — Men’s Fear of Their Own Sexuality
20:56 — The Origin of the Word "Wife"
22:20 — The Male Archetype: Protector & Provider
24:00 — The "Cosmic Wife" & The Power of Trust
26:51 — Outro
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